Without pain, how could we know joy?
John greens words makes sense. But, how can we feel happiness if we have pain all over our life.
So let me first tell you that there is no such thing called pain forever. Pain is temporary.
And like love, pain is also unmeasurable. We can not measure the deepness of someone else's pain. Every one have their own deepness for it. Even if it is little for us.
Usually people think that the biggest pain in our life is loosing the beloved one. But actually there is no such thing called biggest pain or smallest pain. Pain is pain for the one who feel it. We just measuring it from outside. That Make no sense.
" The pain of a king who lost his kingdom and the pain of kid who lost his toy are the same "
It is true that the pain for the Death of our beloved is hard. but, that pain is not for the whole life. In fact, death is a reality and we all know that. It is our duty and honour to keep them alive in our memories.
death is not the greatest lose in our life.the greatest lose in our life is what dies inside us while we are alive. some times our heart needs some time to accept what our mind already know. It happens because of pain inside. And that should be the time limit. What remains after that should be remembrance. Once again, It is our duty and honour to keep them alive in our memories. Not in our painful thoughts.
People always treat a painful person with their almost sympathetic love.which only leads them to be in pain for some more time.
I mean, what all people really want is empathic love. It is great to understand and love a person in their present life situations.
you won't get that love just because you are a painful person. You should have a good character, you should have a good attitude to others. You should have that positive vibes that gives happiness and hope to all you talk to. And then as a reward you will be placed inside the others heart. Then they will show that empathic love to you. In fact ( you ) deserves it.
Then about happiness, we should realize how unhappy we are when we are alone. Because if we can't find happiness alone, we are not happy in life. And the truth is there is no such thrill than being happy and alone.
So all this are coming into one simple thing.
Be happy for no reason and fcuk pain
